Child support question?

Child support question?
O.K. that has a two yr my more engaged aged daughter with another woman. He/it bought her/its/their gifts, diapers, all other types of Babystücken since her was carried. We have some of the receipts für matters protects, but enough, in order to protect everything of them, hurts werent we kept the info. für the diamond earrings, and bigger card pieces, but not for the diapers, meal, playpens, strollers, refuses being ex and so on and so on him/it every unsupervised visit with day one. First, we understood over this, new baby, new mother, nurses and so on, but recently she/it said this "he/it really must prove, he/it takes the trouble" to get any visits from her with all! Not only, thereß, but the Mutter\'s bf of approximately 1 1/2 yr. his/its small one now is Mädchen\'s "daddy" and seminal fluid donors are he/it. She/it is unstable, and bös, that he/it returns wouldnt to her, after they had separated.

So that we will take courting, did we take the trouble to store for a lawyer upward, but is wearily from waiting, her/its/their family is rich, and she/it lives with them, they support her/it/them, the bf and the daughter... she/it dont has jobs... we live in our own place with our son and pay our own bills and so on, will we go ahead exactly so and request without a lawyer for visit..., do you go to the office worker of the courts? for paperwork,

We have to know sufficiently skilled that he/it will be no denyed-Besuch. He/it is a GREAT-Vater. Gets his/its daughter hasnt the chance unfortunately to know this. , the visits have gearbeitet\'s-Zeitplan, f about motherür some short hours sporradically since birth, with her and her/its/their bf there the whole time,

We offered to often pay child support for her, but she/it places, she/it becomes confused to say away, that he/it must take himself for it under contract, and believes that he/it must pay child support to get visit,... although we told both to her/it/them, this not the case is, we want to pay it anyway, is the responsible matter, in order to do,... we has recorded say for also her/it/them all these matters, under many other dreadful spiteful matters.

Think now do you support I, that we only would pay, from the time, if we took him/it for it under contract, can we do this??), but i begins will have to be surprised, whether we pay from the time of the birth, did she/it say recently that everything is so true, which we did before "accustomed matter? WirWir are in the state of Ohio. Any advice or express before we execute this? How much become the court/filing-Gebühren is?


also notice: I say "us", b/c i, to pay for all these matters, helped, and been for all the visits there, is privy to all information. I don\'t become involved unduly, i troubles for itself, it, to stay away, she/it shies I. AH. and the two never were married.

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from Anonymou.... yes you really must find a lawyer because, if she/it is so prosperous, that maybe she/it owes you support payments, not the other way about.

through you asked with it.... you should stay out it. You/they are looked at a third party in this matter. The father should apply for custody/visitation or should bring a lawyer brings, it für him/it, to do. The Gericht\'s web site in your county, this can inform you, which the Feilspangebühren is.

People don\'t recognize that care and child support are two different matters. You/they, that are worthwhile, aren\'t, to see a child, you pay because you brought another human being on this earth. If he/it applies for custody/visitation, Kinderunterst shouldützung is ordered. Something, which ouchßerhalb of the child support a child is given, at a gift is looked. I propose, the expensive gifts für a child, to reduce, if it does you two Dosen\'t itself. Better still, you give the money für a good lawyer from.