Explaining sex differences, sex and suitable touching to six years alto?

I have a six year old son, who is one single child. He/it is really curious, over MY BODY. I take it an\'s, because children over bodies naturally curious is, and because he/it doesn\'t have any siblings to compare itself/themselves to it, unfortunately I become the goal. I now want to put an end to this, because his/its curiosity ouchßer control gets, and he/it begins to become invasive over it. I.e., the Bemühen, to see me change, or the effort, to dissolve on my shirt, not so funny, how it could sound.

I want to it:
his/its curiosity about male and female body parts eases 1.
2 explain like and why male and female bodies are different.
3 teach him/it approximately, you and unsuitable touching and game behavior appropriate. I taught him/it only the doctor/nurse, mommy and daddy already so, or Großmutter, can touch you, where a swimsuit would cover, and only for medical reasons. (He/it is sufficiently old and itself.

I see for/Wondering:

1, ages of suitable explanations over the above mentioned.
2 are okay to show a diagram of the genitals like a vulva or a penis?
3, is it okay to show him/it a picture of a woman, this nurses, in explaining, why women have breasts?
4, how much is too many information at this point?

Recommend medical practicians; Child psychiatrists; Nurses, and parents, that are no prudish things and have a healthy opinion over sex, the bodies and masturbation me, that am estimated very much, would become. Thanks to für advance.

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Between the ages of two and six, young children start, a natural interest in her/its/their bodies and the bodies of others, particularly those, that is different in sex or maturities than her/it, to show. You/they will probably be bombarded with questions, as itself your child bemüht, to understand his/its identity.

Mediate, that the body and his/its functions are natural and healthy, and you inform boys and girls about the anatomy of both sexes. Say Mad little that her/its/their bodies so marvelously equipped as male bodies are. Boys mis assured üssen maybe, that her/its/their private parts won\'t fall away. Both boys as well as Mad little should be said how they will change how they grow older so that they won\'t be frightened by growing up.

Lives will look after you with many teachable moments. If your answers gefühllos is, a child can be shamed fast, confused, or reluctantly, to talk about these matters.

Child experts offer these pointers if they talk about sexual identity with your preschooler,:

? Use a straight face, factual attitude, sense für humor and your own knowledge if confronts with your child\'s questions. Think to hold matters simply.

? It never is too früh, in order to address in regard to the questions or curiosity of your child about sexual identity. Ever früher you begins, the of course it becomes.

? Take advantage againstover any opportunity, that your child Ihnen gives, to talk about sexual matters. Answer frühe questions about body differences, in that you declare the facts unequivocally. Say, thereß "girls and boys differently are done. Mad little have a vagina, and boys have a penis."

? Avoidörper divides itself or the sharing from imagination explanations, the stork brought "my teacher has you, if your preschooler tells you, a baby in her/its/their stomach", you simply explain that the baby is in her/its/their uterus.

? If you in Public is, and your three year old son says, does "my penis" itch, do you say quietly, can it wait, or must you take care of" it now? erkleras you then, "this is something, which you say in your quiet voice". this way, you avoid shame and blame and ließen him/it the difference between public and private behaviors knows.

? Keep it in mind, thereß your child\'s nursery school or the families of friends maybe other words for body parts uses or matters one little differently explains. Remain opens and reinforces the words, that you prefer to use.

? Answer your child honestly and on a manner the most comfortably für you. Colleague sexual equality as well persönlicher responsibility.

The following books help can: What is the big secret?: speaking Over sex with girls and boys of Laurie Krasny Brown.

As co your children, to talk about really important matters, is,: for children Vier until twelve, from C.. shepherds and T.F. Digeronimo.

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through rusty buckets not to worry about itself. He/it will learn everything for him/it in the school. I, that go,it becomes ört, there is a school, that now condoms to 1. Schülern distributes. Soon, we become w from children, who have children,hear locally. What did this society also come?

through favteach.... you are on the right track. There is Bücher that is intended for children, who negotiate with the topic. , To show him/it diagrams, will satisfy his/its curiousity. Brustfütterung is natural, and maybe he/it even sees any time in a public place for him/it, therefore dort\'s nothing wrong with photos.

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through allies, I still would not show him/it any pictures. I believe, thereß he/it too young is. Erkleras you him/it, that a mommy has breasts to nourish her/its/their babies, and that boys and girls are different. Tell him/it, it is not schön, mommy to schnippen\'s-Rock and that it makes you everytime sad, he/it does it. Don\'t share it nicely mit\'s, the swimming suit areas of other people too berühren. Glück